While others are painting or traveling, maybe you’d rather have a larger budget for gardening, golfing, or visiting the grandkids. Focus on the things dearest to you, and let the rest go.
This also holds true while you save for retirement. There’s no law decreeing that you have to have a cell phone, new car, and satellite TV. If you can live without them, save that money instead. Later on, you’ll be so glad you did.